Crap - has it really been a month!?

Life has been very interesting lately.

Work is great. Work is hard. It finally seems like the past 10 months+ where I dealt with crap in the workplace are finally paying off. Of course, now that this is somewhat of a “settled” area in my life – there are other areas of “crap” to which I must attend.

I am back in the swing of dating…and of course, trying to balance a social life AND the exhausting days of work. A challenge I am happy to take on…at least I think so!

Recently, I met a gent…truly…but now I am trying to figure out – have I gotten so comfortable with those who play with me, that I am scared to “play” with the men who are sincere??! Am I relationship-ready? Can I truly take it on with a new job? OR…if I was truly into the gent – would I even be asking these questions?

It is amazing – we think we have it all figured out…and then…we get hit with an experience that leads us to questioning all of it!

The only answer I have that seems fair AND that I would share with any friend who came to me with the dilemma would be:

Give it three dates and see how you feel.
If you still aren’t convinced, then you need to put your cards on the table – because it isn’t fair to play with someone’s feelings.

Those are the only answers I have.

AND…I must begin to write about other things on here than guy-issues. SO…pipe up readers…any topics you would like me to write about?? Trust me to give you any advice – if anything, I promise to start sharing some funny stories!